Performing a Yoni Massage on a woman
This is a form of massage intended to give a woman utmost selfless pleasure. Although the Yoni massage can be extremely stimulating, the objective is not to bring the woman to orgasm. Rather, it is to relax both the receiver and the giver and to bring emotions to the surface.
Yoni is the ancient Sanskrit word for the vagina which can also be translated as a “sacred place” and or “source of Life”. In many societies, the vagina is regarded as a sacred part of the body (female), which must be treated with respect and care. The Yoni massage is an aesthetic form of intimacy that builds love and trust between partners and brings them closer together spiritually and emotionally.
Have a comfortable environment: To have a memorable and sensuous Yoni experience, you must get a unique environment where the pressures of home and real life do not interrupt. If you are married with kids, it is advisable you take your kids to the babysitter, this will enable you build a better love atmosphere, better yet, get a nice getaway cabin or hotel if you can afford one. You might as well want to turn on the heat in order to make the atmosphere warm or turn on the ac in order to make the atmosphere cold, it all depends on what she wants. Make her comfortable!!!
Required Items: After creating a suitable environment, it is necessary you make provision for all the required items. You have to position the candles and light them up, get the massage oil. It is recommended you use a good water based lubricant such as coconut oil or Yoni Bliss. The added benefits of Yoni Bliss are the homeopathic remedies that can help to nourish your tissues.
Prepare Her for the yoni experience: Make her take a hot shower or bath, better yet, follow it by a cold one. Make her very comfortable with you and the environment.
Have her to meditate/breathe: Make her close her eyes and breathe; she has to spend some time being conscious of how air gradually comes into and leaves your lungs. She has to intentionally reduce the rate of her breathe and move her hips and shoulder around. Make sure she is under no form of tension anywhere. If she has any, help her reduce the tension before you commence the yoni massage. Before beginning the massage, it is necessary you gaze into each other’s eyes while embracing and engaging in a relaxed, deep and a synchronized breathing.
Get started: When you are sure she is relaxed and under no form of tension, then you are ready to begin the massage. The woman lies on her back with one pillow under her hips to elevate her pelvis and another under her head. She bends her knees and opens her legs to expose her Yoni(Vagina). You have to sit comfortably between her legs with your legs crossed to have a direct view of her Yoni. You may as well sit on a pillow or cushion. Begin by massaging other parts of her body to enable her to relax. Thereafter, Gently, but firmly, massage her thighs, legs, breasts, stomach and arms before venturing toward the Yoni. Thereafter, massage the pubic bone area and then move down to the inner thigh area. Repeat this motion at least nine times. Next, with the right hand, apply a high-quality lubricant or oil to the mound of the Yoni, pouring just enough so that it flows down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. Then, gently rub the lubricant or oil on the outer lips of the Yoni. Repeat this at least nine times. Next, gently squeeze each lip of the Yoni using the index finger and thumb, sliding the fingers up and down the entire length of each lip. Thenceforth, carefully repeat this process with each inner lip of the vagina varying the speed and pressure of touch according to her preferences. Next, gently stroke the clitoris in a circular motion, clockwise and counter-clockwise. Then, squeeze her clitoris between your thumb and index finger. Next, gently and with great care, insert your middle finger into her Yoni. Very slowly explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with your middle finger. Varying the depth and speed of your finger, feel inside the Yoni up, down, around and in all other directions. With your finger inside her Yoni and your palm pointing upward, bend your finger to touch her G-spot, also known as the “sacred spot” in Tantra.
Circling: This has to do with circling the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your finger.
G-spot massage: This is a spongy piece of skin right behind the clitoris. To find this spot, form a letter C with your first two fingers and slide then into the Vagina.
Tapping: This involves tapping the clitoris using one or more fingers
Some benefits of Yoni massage
Connect with your woman
Connect a woman with her higher sexual self
Heals her womb: Having a massage around this whole Yoni area can begin to make some womb reparations. Endometriosis, Pregnancies, births, cancer, unfinished creations. As a woman, her heart is in her womb, in ways we may never know.
Improve blood flow: Massage generally brings blood flow to the area. Blood flow provides nutrients and improved sensation.
Reawakes a woman’s creativity.
It’s a source of relaxation.